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Unhealthy Generosity

A deep drive to give. Sacrificing and compromising all in the name of helping others, making others happy. But what is healthy generosity

Posted byJasonOctober 23, 2022January 25, 2023Posted inGeneral, Self HelpTags:boundaries, compromise, counselling, empath, generosity, giver, giving, helping, HSP, sacrifice, valuesLeave a comment on Unhealthy Generosity
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Sometimes sharing what we think or feel with those close to us can be used to influence or control.  What we are sharing isn't used for the purpose of connecting, helping process, or getting reflections from others.  Sometimes it's underlying needs and wants, expectations or insecurities that come spilling out. To be independent enough to build a life that What do you use as signals for how well you are doing with self care? 'Love yourself enough to walk away, to say no, to strip away the guilt attached to putting yourself first.' - Nikki Davies Love this guy. #jmstorm #Communication.  Always a difficult topic.  So many considerations from the environment, to the context of a relationship, its history, cultural etc etc... Continuing on the books that help me explore my path and inner self.  It's been great to tune in and align again. That all things change, the good and bad, come and go.  That grasping or trying to control just increases unhappiness.  By acknowledging change as a fundamental truth and working in observing change and our reaction to it we make the most of the moment we are in and let go of pain.
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